Initially when a man meets a woman, some men may seek other men to validate their woman. Their approval may make him feel that he hit the jackpot. It’s simply an ego boost for a man to see other men check out his woman and desire her. Sometimes it will make a man value his woman more knowing other men are interested in her. When another man says to his friend, “How did you get her?” Most men will feel complimented rather than offended by that comment.
Other women will sometimes feel your man must have something going on, since you chose to be with him. In turn, this may make him seem more attractive to other women. Usually other women will presume that this man must be successful or he must be a great lover.
Women are more likely than men to want or need the approval of their relationship from friends and family. Often a person’s disapproval is based on their own selfish reasons or because they aren’t in a relationship and they may feel now that you aren’t single anymore, your time spent with them may be limited. Instead, they should be happy that you found love.
You can listen to the advice of others, but make your decision based solely on your partner’s actions and how they make you feel. Ultimately other people’s approval shouldn’t matter when it comes to affairs of the heart.
Every woman in a relationship or marriage should expect to be celebrated on Valentine’s Day. Whether your man takes you out for a romantic dinner and dancing, send a dozen long-stemmed red roses, gives you Godiva chocolates and a card, buys you sexy lingerie, surprises you with jewelry (diamonds are a girl’s best friend). All of these are ways we want our man to show his love for us.
The 1st Course (Dinner)
Some women may prefer a candlelight dinner at home. Set the table in a formal setting with your best dinnerware and table linens. Seafood or a surf n turf entrée would be a good choice for the menu. Red wine would be the beverage of choice and sparkling spring water. Red velvet cupcakes or chocolate lava cake could be a dessert option.
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A man will get bored if there’s constant predictability or monotonous routine in his relationship. Men crave spontaneity and a challenge to keep their interest. It’s like playing the game of chess. Men enjoy strategizing their next move in order to reel her in. Keeping a man unsure of your feelings, will stop him from taking you for granted and in turn from losing interest in you. Being unpredictable and changing up things at a whim, will make him want to continue seeing you.
Men are hunters by nature. They are always up for a challenge. Someone who cause them to have to up their game in order to win her over will remain interesting to him. The thrill of the chase is intriguing to a man. He won’t lose interest in a woman who wasn’t too easy to get in the first place. The harder a man has to work at pursuing a woman, the more he will value her.
Contrary to what most women think, most men still expect to have to pursue a woman. A man’s ego will cause him to continue to chase after a woman he wants. Men are competitive and don’t like to give up or feel defeated. She would be more interesting to him than a woman who is chasing after him.
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