Being too nice doesn’t have to a bad thing, if you choose a good man to get involved with that will value you. Many times women go for the bad boy type, the player with swag or a man who refuses to let himself get emotionally attached to any woman.
A woman’s love is often taken for granted if she is too nice to a man. The nice girl will tend put her man first and will sacrifice her own happiness to please her man. If a woman allows a man to treat her badly and continue to hang around, then she’s showing him that she lacks self-respect, so how can she expect for him to respect her. The fear of losing the man is the main reason some woman will stay. A man will see her as having low self-esteem, needy or perhaps desperate to have a man.
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