Being too available for a man is a big mistake that many women make early on in their relationship. It can lead to being taken for granted and you may become his back-up plan. Some men will see a woman who waits for his call and is always available as being needy or desperate. It’s not an attractive trait to a man. It’s best not to always respond immediately to his text messages or phone calls. You may appear to be waiting with the phone in your lap.
Having your own friends and interests and having an active life aside from a man will make you more interesting, less predictable and will keep his attention. Don’t put your plans with friends on hold, hoping to hear from a man. Never cancel your plans for a man who calls at the last-minute. Pretend to be busy, even if you aren’t. (LOL) It’s best to let a man know he has to confirm plans with you in advance, or you may not be available. After all, you do have a life!