In search of the right man, a woman has to go through the wrong men in order for her to discover what she doesn’t want in a man, and for her to be able to appreciate a good man when she gets one. Mr. Right may not be tall, dark and handsome, successful or charming. He may be some of the men women tend to overlook. He may be considered nerdy or be just an average Joe, but he may be loyal, respectful, hardworking and a gentleman. A key quality a man should possess in order to give him a second look, would be a man who has “Potential”. He may not be well-established in his career, but he may be moving in the right direction and determined to succeed. His ambition and drive and the support of a good woman will help him to reach his goals. I think Mr. Right should mainly be a good man, also someone you have chemistry, compatibility and similar interests with.
Having confidence and self-esteem go hand-in-hand with loving yourself. Self-love is necessary in order for a person to feel they deserve to be loved, and to put themselves first, before others. When a woman loves a man more than she loves herself, she will sacrifice her wants and needs for his to please her man.
Confidence and self-love are attractive qualities in a mate. I think it may be hard for someone to truly love a person who doesn’t love themself. It’s ironic though, that not loving yourself doesn’t prevent a person from being able to love someone else. The problem is when you love someone more than you love yourself, they’ll probably love you less and may take your love for granted.