When you’re in a relationship and it feels like you have to put so much effort into it to make it work, he’s probably not into you.  It could be that you aren’t his type or you’re not compatible.

If a man disappears days without any contact with you, he isn’t into you.  When your relationship feels like you are on a roller coaster ride, generally that means it’s in trouble.  He may not want to let go altogether.  He may just want to string you along as his piece on the side, when he’s in between relationships or when he has a dry spell.  Usually in this case, he’s just using you for sex.  You may become his booty call, but not his girlfriend.

Men who don’t have any interest in what’s going on with you or don’t try to get to  know you or share things with you about himself, isn’t into you.

If a man see you infrequently or waits days to call or to return your call or text, isn’t into you.  A man who doesn’t make time to spend with you, isn’t into you.  At some point he will call with some lame excuse.  There’s no such thing as being too busy to call or text.  Excuses, excuses, excuses!

When a man doesn’t let you meet his friends or family, this is a sure sign that he isn’t into you.  He probably wouldn’t want to meet your friends and family either.

Some men will talk about other women to you or text other women when his is with you.  This is a man who isn’t interested in you.  Anytime his cell gets more attention from him than you do, he’s not into you.

A man who isn’t into you won’t make plans with you far in advance and he will cancel plans at the last minute.  That’s a sign that someone else has become his priority over you.

If you have to wonder if he’s into you, then he probably isn’t.  Your intuition is telling you, but you are in denial.  Let go and go ghost on him.  Every woman deserves a man who really cares about her.  Don’t settle for less!