First and foremost, a man has to already be attracted to you in order for you to reel him in. There isn’t a magic trick that can get a man to be into you, if he isn’t.
The following scenarios can help to give you an edge.
ACTION: Keep him guessing about how you really feel about him.
OUTCOME: He will try harder to win you over. Men do like a challenge.
ACTION: Don’t constantly call or text him.
OUTCOME: He will notice and he will be the one checking up on you.
ACTION: Don’t pressure him to spend time with you. Have a see you, when I see you attitude.
OUTCOME: He will be wondering who you are spending time with and he will want to spend more time with you.
ACTION: Don’t be too available. If he calls you at the last minute, don’t change your plans for him.
OUTCOME: He will know you are not waiting by the phone for his call, and that you have a life.
ACTION: Be unpredictable.
OUTCOME: Having spontaneity will intrigue him and he will be anxious to see you.
ACTION: Let him know you are his equal.
OUTCOME: He will respect you.
ACTION: Project that you are with him because you choose to be.
OUTCOME: He will feel lucky to have you. Knowing you don’t need him to feel complete and that he can easily be replaced.
ACTION: Show that you are confident and secure. (Pretend if you have to)
OUTCOME: He will find you attractive and independent.
ACTION: Never worry about where he is or what he’s doing.
OUTCOME: He will know you have a life aside from him and that you are not needy.
ACTION: Always look hot.
OUTCOME: He will see other men checking you out and he will know he has someone other men would love to have and that he doesn’t want to lose.
ACTION: Always put yourself first.
OUTCOME: He will see you as a confident woman who loves herself. He will value you.
ACTION: Act like you are his queen.
OUTCOME: He will think so, too. Men feed off how you feel about yourself and they treat you accordingly.
FYI *** Some men refer to women who “got game” as b i t c h e s. ***
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