How to Tell if “He’s the One”

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He’s committed to you . . .

The first indication is that he is faithful to you and you trust each other.  He has told you that he loves you.  It’s hard for men to express their emotions.  When a man introduces you to his mother, and it’s not because you are pregnant with her first grandchild, that in itself shows that you  have his heart.  He wants his mother’s approval of you.  He is willing to go out of his way for you.  He listens to you and remembers what is important to you. (birthdays, anniversaries, etc.).

You have chemistry and compatibility . . .

You are physically and emotionally attracted to each other.  You have similar values and are compatible in most areas.  (There is no such thing as a perfect man).  Both of you are willing to compromise when needed.  You respect each other, even when you disagree on something.  You feel he could be your soul mate.

He talks about a future with you . . .

Men think about you long-term when they plan future events and includes you in it.  He refers to you as his future wife and talks a family in the future with you.  (Within 2 years of dating, he should be thinking about his future with you).

You communicate well with each other . . .

He shows his feelings and includes you in on what’s going on with him.  He knows even over the telephone when something is wrong.  He is connected to you.  You don’t keep secrets from each other.  He is your friend as well as your lover.

He has your back . . .

He will comfort you when you are in need.  He defends you even when he knows you are wrong.  You can count on him to be there whenever you need his help or support.  When men are in love they are protective of you.  He won’t allow anyone to disrespect you.  He will provide for you if needed.  He will help you when you need his help without you having to ask.

He’s supportive of your goals . . .                

He wants you to succeed and reach your goals.  He knows your success will enhance your life together.  He wants what is best for you.  He admires your ambition and drive.  He’s willing to help in any way that he can.

You met his friends and family . . .

When you are introduced to the people in his life that are important to him, it means that he considers you a significant part of his life.  He’s not hesitant about showing his affection in public  (holding hands putting his arm around you).  He puts you before his friends and spends more time with you than with them.

He satisfies you . . .

He desires to please you in and out of the bedroom.  He isn’t a selfish lover.  He wants to make you happy.

Your life blends well with his . . .

He fits into your life with ease.  You don’t have to rearrange your life for him. Your friends and family approve of him.  Your lives complement each others.  Both of you paint a similar picture of how you see your future together. (You agree on children, living arrangements, etc.)

He makes you feel complete . . .

You have everything you want in life, except the man you deserve.  With him you feel you have it all.  He enhances your life.  He brings to the table the one and only missing element in your life.  You complete each other.


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